Reyza Diannova

So often I hear people talking about how much love can hurt, how much life hurts. While there are many ways to look at this, I've found that for me it's the growth or lack of it that actually feels painful. Our life, our love can seem much like our clothes. We can try on different 'outfits', different titles, different relationships, different jobs.. attempting to fit within the confines of the 'clothes' but our spirit has a natural desire to grow and to BE the love and life we were intended to be. We tend to focus on what that 'looks' like instead of the way of being that would have us actually having it. We seek out 'outfits' that will give us the 'look' of what we believe we want to be and then we try to tailor our beings to fit within them. It's keeping that spirit within the confines of the clothes, the squeeze, that is painful. When we are living a life smaller than what we are meant to live and being a love smaller than w...

So there she goes walking by you.. legs up to there, cute little flirt with me pumps on, a mega watt smile, fitted dress in your favorite color.. Oh she must be the one! Your best friend leans over and closes your jaw for you as your mind runs it's mental checklist of possibility.. smart, check, powerful, check, desirable, check.. HOT, yes, yes check! She tosses a glance back your way and you feel mesmerized in the moment and then by a streak of luck you're introduced and within just a few brief moments.. squealing brakes are sliding to a halt, whoa pitter pattering heart.. You're thinking wait, wait ~ she has everything on my list, where's my spark.. OH NO there's no spark, nothing, nada, zip! While she's still sweet to look at.. Where did the attraction go that you thought you should have? And the hardest part.. your friends think you're crazy when you tell them 'I'm just not attracted to her like that' While initially some physical nature ...

I love to take pictures. I’m not necessarily good at it, but I enjoy it nonetheless. Besides, if I’m behind the camera, then I won’t be caught on film because I hate getting my picture taken as much as I love taking pictures. I’ve put thousands (literally, thousands!) of pictures on flash drives and CDs. I’ll probably never have the time or money to print them and put them in albums, but now and then I like looking through them on my computer. I really like looking at other people’s pictures also. It doesn’t matter what the subject matter is, I just truly enjoy looking at pictures. If that description fits you, please feel free to take a look at some of my better photos on facebook https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.273248536099684.63586.100002436184818&type=3. I’m happy to share!

Many people want a new love or partner in their life. Some of them are saddened by the lack of available partners. At least that's what most of my friends tell me. The truth is we live in a world of over 6 billion people each one unique and diversely beautiful people. So within this cornucopia of people... why are they experiencing such a challenge? Mostly, they are 'waiting' to play a big spirited lover 'when the right one comes along'. And in their eyes, there are so many wrong ones that they project an air of disappointment constantly, which... (let's face it) is not the most attractive attribute. They unknowingly prove themselves right by sending the 'good' ones running and collecting this same evidence over and over again. They are waiting for someone to come along and inspire them to be a great poet, so they can get passionate.. They are waiting for someone who will inspire joy, so they can get happy. If they would be the partner that would bri...