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Find And Free

When was the last time you really played? No, I'm not talking about online games (no offense if farmtown is your thing). I mean real spontaneous, uninhibited, childlike play - the kind of freedom you had when you were a little kid and you could do anything or be anything, simply because you dreamed it was possible. If you can't remember when that was - well you've probably lost your sense of play and right now is as good a time as any to reacquaint yourself with that fun-loving, free spirited, inner you! I know what you're thinking.. you can't do it because you might look foolish, silly or just plain dumb. We make excuses that we just don't have time to play or playing is not what 'grownups' do. Well, here's the thing.. children play in nearly everything they do and they're HAPPY. The secret to finding your playful self again is to let go, abandon your excuses and risk looking foolish! Here are some ways to get back your playful self and hav...

Dealing With People Around Me

I experience and interact with people all day every day, from my personal family, my friends, neighbors, co-workers, or even complete strangers, be it navigating online or right here in my world's hustle and bustle of traffic. I love them. I love people. And yet, even I will admit that sometimes I run into a situation where a person seems a bit more difficult than another, okay a lot more difficult. Sometimes in a moment of interaction with someone who is being difficult, it's easy to forget our humanity, lose our self in the moment and backlash with even more difficulty. I know, you've probably thought 'they had it coming' - 'how dare they' - 'oh, no you didn't'.. In an instant we lose our own firm grip of dignity and become the sprayed roach relative of our 'apparent' adversarial counterpart. Yes, I said sprayed roach. Imagine the visual.. We've all seen one and you don't want to be one. You're going to run into people from...